For some kids, the sight of a dog—even the tiniest, friendliest one—can trigger intense fear and anxiety. While dogs are often called “man’s best friend,” for kids with a phobia of dogs, they’re anything but.
However, you can help your child slowly build confidence and ease their fears around our furry friends. The Mom’s Choice Awards publication states that as a parent you need to encourage your child to interact with the dog by showing them that it doesn’t cause harm and ensure the dog has a calm temperament and doesn’t jump or bark.
It is further mentioned that you use a reward system and talk about dogs with your child, “If your child has allowed a dog to come to her, or has petted a dog on a given day, make them feel special with a special award certificate or present. When you are out shopping or having fun, show them pictures of dogs you have grown up with and let them know how special they have been in your life.”
Support your child’s fear of dogs by explaining any intimidating dog behaviours and asking questions about their feelings after encounters, suggests WebMD. It is encouraged that you allow them to express their feelings and use their words to ask additional questions.
“If your child is so afraid of dogs that it impacts their day-to-day life, seek help. Talk to your paediatrician about available resources and pursue counselling for your child. A psychologist may offer additional guidance for how you can help your child cope.
The Cynophobia Clinic mentions that when your child is feeling afraid be their ally and never push them to do something they’re not ready to do or advocate for their needs. It is stated that reassuring them makes them feel like you understand their feelings.
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