Cuddlers midwife, Phiwe Madondo, speaks to us about pregnancy and answers frequently asked questions.
How soon should I go to a clinic after discovering my pregnancy?
Immediately.
If you’re planning on falling pregnant, the following needs to be done…
- A complete physical examination to detect any abnormalities with your body system.
- Isolate medical conditions that might affect your pregnancy such as diabetes and hypertension.
- Assess risk factors such as age – are you under 18 or over 35? When you’re under 18, your body is underdeveloped and there’s a huge chance you will have a C-section. When you’re over 35, on the other hand, it might be difficult to fall pregnant in the first place and, if you do get pregnant, the risk of having a miscarriage is higher.
- Review any medication that might have an adverse effect on your pregnancy.
- Ensure that you are psychologically and emotionally sound – your reasons to have a child shouldn’t be based on fixing a crumbling relationship or filling a void.
What procedures will be done at the clinic?
- Thorough examination, focusing on your body system.
- A medical interview, which can get very personal; but the idea is for you to be as honest as possible because your answers will help your healthcare provider understand you better.
- Blood tests.
Am I forced to do an HIV test?
No you are not, but it would be advisable to have it done so you can get early treatment.
How often should I go for a check-up?
Every four weeks.
What danger signs should I look out for?
- Severe headaches
- Lower abdominal pain
- Reduced fetal movements
- Breaking of waters at any point during pregnancy
- Vaginal bleeding.
Should I continue having sex while pregnant?
Yes, you were having sex before, so nothing should change. You might be uncomfortable during your third trimester, so try different positions.
How will I know if I am in labour?
You will feel pain in the lower part of your abdomen. The pain will start from your lower back and spread to the front. It will increase in intensity and in frequency. If you get up and walk, it will not get better.
Which is better, giving birth the natural way or having a C-section?
Natural is definitely better. You heal quicker and you can have as many children as you want. With a C-section, you will be required to stay in hospital for about five days and will still feel pain on the scar years later.
In my previous pregnancy, I had a C-section. Will I be able to deliver normally with my next baby?
Yes, of course. A vaginal birth is more than possible after a C-section – as long as the pregnancy and labour are normal, natural birth is possible.
