Adult breastfeeding, or erotic lactation, is an act enjoyed by few around the world. Although breastfeeding your partner does not pose a problem, there are times when it is not recommended.
Verywell Family has listed seven occasions when you should not consider breastfeeding your significant other.
1. If you have an oversupply issue
While it may sound as a relief for you to breastfeed your partner if you have engorged breasts, this is not the case. In fact, extra nursing will can cause your body to produce more breast milk, which can spell trouble if you already have an oversupply of milk.
2. If you have pain
Adult breastfeeding when your nipples are sensitive can be quite painful. “The strength of an adult’s suck can be even more painful than that of a baby,” states Verywell Family. “If your partner bites down on your nipples, that could lead to small breaks in the skin that could cause you to develop a breast infection, possibly interfering with your ability and desire to continue breastfeeding your baby.”
3. If you feel uncomfortable
While some may feel emotionally and physically comfortable breastfeeding their hubby, others may not. Do not feel pressured in breastfeeding your partner. Talk to them about how you feel and find a solution you will both enjoy.
4. If you are pregnant and high risk
“If you’re pregnant with multiples, you’ve had a previous miscarriage, or you have a history of preterm labour, talk to your doctor about safe levels of stimulation at the breast,” notes the above-mentioned publication. Evidence has shown that breast and nipple stimulation can lead to uterine contractions and early labour. So, it is best to refrain from adult breastfeeding if you have a high-risk pregnancy.
5. If your partner has an infection or virus
If you are breastfeeding your partner who has an infection or virus that is transmitted through the mouth, it can be given to you and your baby through contact via the breast. Thus, it is best to hold off on the extra nursing.
6. If you are HIV positive or have an infectious disease
According to the above-mentioned publication, HIV and other infectious diseases can enter your breast milk which can then be passed on to your significant other. It is important that both you and your are aware of the risks involved.
7. If you or your baby has thrush
Yeast infections can quickly be passed on to your partner and back to you during breastfeeding. If you, your partner, or baby experience symptoms of thrush (like pain or a burning sensation around the nipple or mouth), contact your doctor to receive treatment.
Also see: Reasons why your husband may want you to breastfeed him
