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Love is in the air, and if you’re planning to pop the question this Valentine’s Day, you’re not alone. February 14th is one of the most popular days for proposals, and for good reason—romance is practically built into the date. However, before you get down on one knee, there are a few things to consider.
The perfect proposal isn’t about extravagance; it’s about meaning. Whether you’re dreaming of a grand gesture or an intimate moment, a little thoughtfulness can turn “Will you marry me?” into a memory that lasts a lifetime (and gets you a very enthusiastic “Yes!”).
The Knot recommends a scavenger hunt proposal which can involve clues to meaningful moments, with the big question at the end. It is also suggested that you schedule a private dance lesson with a proposal after the last twirl, dimming the lights and hiring a photographer to capture the magical moment.
Take your partner on a romantic journey with a chauffeured ride to their favourite restaurant, or opt for a luxury black car service for an unforgettable experience, states Good Housekeeping. It is also advised that you surprise your partner with a helicopter ride to the sky. “For perfectionists who fear their proposal may go wrong, hiring an engagement planner takes away the stress. Working with a trusted planner will give you more time to focus on your special moment without worrying about the details. Planners can work within your budget and create an experience that suits your heart’s desire.”
What other way to propose to your partner than recreating your first date? The Wedding Wire website suggests that you plan a Valentine’s proposal by planning the same activity you did when you first met or booking the same restaurant.
It is advised that you use memories from your first date in your proposal speech for added nostalgia.