The leap from high school to university is more than just an address change—it’s a whole new world of independence, challenges, and growth. For many parents, sending their child off to university is a bittersweet milestone, filled with pride and a touch of worry.
How will they manage on their own? Are they ready for the academic and social pressures ahead? Don’t stress—preparation is the key to a smooth transition. From teaching life skills to fostering emotional resilience, here’s how you can help your child take on their first year of university like a pro.
The Nelson Mandela University suggest that you talk to your child about your experiences and challenges, discussing expectations like personal safety, social responsibilities, and financial responsibilities.
It is also advised that you set realistic academic goals and encourage self-motivation. Be supportive, admit mistakes and take steps to prevent them from happening again.
During the first semester, children may make mistakes, such as misplaced assignments or missed deadlines. As a responsible adult, it is mentioned that you guide them into admitting these mistakes and taking steps to prevent future occurrences.
“Encourage your child to speak to their lecturer about their progress and any concerns they have. Help to set realistic academic goals that can be evaluated throughout the year and rewarded when achieved.”
If the child is moving to stay at a student accommodation or even in another province far away from home, the Whatuni publication suggests that you help them familiarise themselves with the surroundings and learn cooking skills. Teaching simple recipes can bond with your child and make them feel more comfortable. It is also advised that you start teaching them how to use laundry machines if they don’t know how to already.
You also suggested that you have a safety talk together about topics like nights out, drinking, relationships, and mental health. Universities have support systems and counselling services, so it’s essential to discuss these topics openly and honestly. This will help your child feel more at home and prepared for their new environment.
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