The word “solo” does not sound as bad as hearing ‘lonely’ Christmas right? That’s how we actually want to navigate the idea of celebrating the occasion by ourselves, as something that can be enjoyed even if it may sound ‘depressing’ to some people.
It might just present itself as a special chance to establish your own customs and take pleasure in the occasion in a way that holds personal significance. Even though it could feel lonely at first, accepting the independence that comes with celebrating alone can make it an opportunity for relaxation, introspection, and self-care.
Following someone else’s timetable is unnecessary, what matters is what brings you joy. If you feel like having that sophisticated supper you’ve always wanted to try or your favourite comfort food, you are more than welcome to do so, and if you would rather not prepare food at home, several eateries provide takeout.
BetterHelp is all for the idea of celebrating Christmas alone, suggesting journaling as an option, the website explains that it can be used to process and let go of emotions by engaging in the following exercises:
- Write about your favourite memory.
- Ideas for creating a sense of community.
- Jot down this year’s accomplishments.
- Write down the things for which you are most thankful for this year.
According to SoloLiving, “There are all sorts of reasons why we may be spending Christmas alone. Christmas alone might be what we wish for, or working or living abroad means you might be away from family and friends.”
The above source further suggests the following ideas to make the most of your Christmas this year:
- Spend a day indulging in a guilty pleasure.
- A complete hair, face, and body beauty mask is the ultimate in pampering.
- Take on a task you’ve been putting off but haven’t yet had time to do.
- Take a break for an adventure or activity and try something different.
Also see: Escape the indoors with romantic getaways under R1000
